From one 'mum of many' to another momofmany....hi!
I just had to reply to your post as this is the most important false teaching the WT has (in my book).
When I first started on my 'search' I just couldn't believe what I read in the society's mags about Jesus not being my mediator.
After much reading (mainly Paul's letters in NT) I knew something was very wrong. From this teaching it is so easy to see how the teaching of the separation of the 144000 and the other sheep is also a false teaching. Jesus is the mediator for all christians (one sheepfold..christian Jews/christian gentiles ) "Jesus Christ, who died -more than that, who is raised to life- is at the right hand of God and is interceding for us." - Rom 8:34
I was so upset when I realised how I had believed such wrong teaching I was physically ill. The quotes other posters have used are excellent so I don't have to add more.
It still makes me feel very angry.
Suffice to say this is a most important turning point...it leads to a complete turn-around in understanding doctrine.
"Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will in all things grow up into him who is the Head, that is, Christ" Eph.4:15
Perhaps you might like to do what I did...just read Romans..get another Bible translation then read Paul's letters and I think you will find everything starts to make sense, it's like a jigsaw puzzle. Pray for a right understanding. I didn't talk to anybody, just read. It took 6 months to start coming up out of the gloom.
So, from one mum to another: " may the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you all." - 2 Cor 13:14